Quote by Blaine: The top header menu items that you mention are contained in the template variable {menu_elements} in the template header.thtml file as geKow noted.
You won't be able to selectively remove menu items without editing the COM_siteHeader() function or the simplest approach is to edit the language file and just replace the MenuItem Label with "" so that nothing is displayed for the link.
That's a solution, thanks! But now I want to get rid of all the |||| that left behind:
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